If we fall and hurt ourselves, eventually we
heal and end up with a scar on the part of the body that was hurt. The scar
might stay with us forever, reminding us of that accident. When we have our
feelings hurt by someone, we might also get a scar on our soul that reminds us
of that hurt. The difficult part is to leave that scar alone and don’t think
about it constantly, feeling sorry for ourselves for what happened.A cura nunca é completa sem o perdão. Se continuarmos a pensar em todos os que nos ferem, nunca iremos progredir na vida e nos tornar inteiros novamente. As cicatrizes não devem ser vistas como uma lembrança de nossa miseria, mas como um símbolo da coragem que tivemos para sobreviver àquela experiência desagradável e nos tornar a pessoa que somos agora. Só cabe a nós mesmos decidir se vamos encarar alguma coisa com tristeza ou com gratidão pelas lições que aprendemos.
Last night I was watching a soap opera, and one of the characters, a wife who had told her husband a serious lie, was helped by her grandmother to fix the situation. Although her husband had forgiven her, the grandmother said: "Remember: In a broken relashionship,despite being mended, there will always be a crack." That's it, I think.
ReplyDeleteI agree, Ana. Forgiveness is a very tricky, but important, thing.Thanks for your comment. Bjs.
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